And Now It's Time to Say Good-bye...

Dabbs Greer
April 2, 1917 - April 28, 2007
The notion of time is so very peculiar. Sometimes it moves
painfully slow, and yet... decades vanish in the twinkle of an
eye. When I first wrote to Dabbs, he was 62, and I was 33. So
can it be that just last week Dabbs died at 90, and in a little
over a year, I'll be 62?
Today I read through every letter I ever received from Robert
William "Dabbs" Greer. ("Robert" being his
one grandfather, "William" the other, and "Dabbs"
his mother's maiden name.) I had forgotten so much. I forgot
the delight we both felt in learning to know each other and the
fun we had discussing movies, television (Superman in
particular), education, politics, and relationships. Today brought
all of that back to me... some of which I'd like to share with
you.
Some of our correspondence was mundane. In one letter from
1990 he told me he finally traded in his 1935 era typewriter
for a Brother word processor. This thing
is called a word processing typewriter and has enough controls
to wash the dishes and grease your car... if you don*t push the
buttons that sends it into orbit instead of doing what you want
it to. So please bear with me while I take little baby steps
and try to answer your recent letter. His big complaint
at the time was the location of the apostrophe on the word processor.
On the old typewriter, it was at "Shift 8," and he
just couldn*t get used to it being anywhere else.
Dabbs had a wry, self-deprecating sense of humor. One time,
soon after his birthday, he wrote:
Thank you for the very clever and attractive
card that remembered my birthday. Too bad this birthday boy is
no longer either clever or attractive! The card industry is so
vast that it is impossible to have seen all the designs and sentiments
that are available, but I prowl the card shops often, and I'd
never seen the one you sent. Thank you for staying in there all
this time and continuing to offer your friendly gestures.
After telling me about some of his movies he taped from AMC
and TNT, he wrote:
That paragraph makes it sound as if
I'm taping only pictures in which I worked which isn't true because
I've also gotten a lot of those old RKO and MGM greats. I may
not respect Ted Turner for his stand on colorization, but I do
admire his taste in reviving and restoring so many of the oldies.
And after this birthday, I too am an oldie that could stand some
restoration! [Note that by this time, Dabbs no longer
had trouble finding the apostrophe.]
Sometimes I'd send Dabbs tapes of old television shows such
as Dick Tracy, The Lone Ranger, and Superman. To
that he responded:
Jim, I do thank you for all your kindness.
The other night I watched an episode of The
Brady Bunch I had done recently and thought, "My God!
When did I get so old?" And then I watched the things you
sent and wondered, "My God! Was I ever that young?"
I especially enjoyed his letters describing his "Adventures
in TV Land." After I told him I spotted a double on his
horse riding out of a scene in The Big Valley, he explained:
I don't ride and won't even "sit"
a horse unless there is no way out. (1) I have a right shoulder
which dislocates very easily... 12 times thus far... and another
time would cause surgery that might leave me with only 10% of
movement in that arm. (2) My first year in college a friend and
I had taken a trip to Colorado and one afternoon wanted to ride
around the "Garden of the Gods." We had ridden quite
some time and dismounted to look at a canyon... our horses had
been trained together, and when we started back my friend had
gotten on his horse before I did, and he spurred his horse into
a fast gallop. My horse started to catch him, and I could neither
complete the mount nor loose my foot from the stirrup, and I
was dragged along the rim of the canyon with my ankle in the
stirrup and my head and body bumping along the terrain. Luckily
nothing was broken, but it left me with an unnatural fear of
horses... and they say horses can sense that emotion. So, there
is nothing lost in their not liking the way I smell...
for I'm not very fond of eau d'horse either.
Of course, I loved when he wrote about
George Reeves and Superman. Dabbs so often said it was
impossible to remember details of the shows he did so many years
ago, then he'd tell me things like this in a letter dated June
24, 1980:
Another budget problem pops into
my mind regarding "The Superman Silver Mine," another
episode of Superman in which
I worked. I played twins (two parts for one salary) and there
was a plot device where George's x-ray vision was supposed to
penetrate my head. This required a make-up gizmo called a "skin
head"... a thin rubber head piece molded to cover the actor's
hair from the forehead to the nape of the neck and covering the
sideburns. It is glued into place with spirit gum. I don't know
what they cost but they're not something to send you into bankruptcy.
They had ordered two. The first one split (old stock, I suppose)
as it was being glued on. The second one also created a problem.
The assistant director pushed the panic button. The schedule
had been set up so that I would do a sequence, then other actors
would do a sequence while I had the prosthesis applied, we'd
photograph me in the skin-head then it would be removed during
another scene in which I didn't appear and then they would shoot
the dissolve into my regular head (I had considerably more hair
in those days). Nothing went right. It took forever to get the
set ups. I'm sure there were several new ulcers before the day
was over. It's nice to remember those early days. Thanks for
reminding me.
In a later telephone conversation, Dabbs
related another story from "The Superman Silver Mine."
Jim, I just remembered something
else from that last Superman
episode I did in which I played the two roles of Mr. Pebble and
Dan Dobey. Mr. Pebble was supposed to be a prospector, so on
the first day there I met with the wardrobe man and we drove
to Nudie the Rodeo Tailor to look for some kind of western costume.
Now often bigs stars buy their clothes from Nudie and then later
trade them in on something else. Nudie then rents the traded-in
outfits to television or movie productions in need of specific
wardrobe. Well we looked through the racks, and the wardrobe
man picked out an outfit which once belonged to a famous country-western
singer of the time. It was my size so and back we went to the
Superman set. It wasn't until we got back that I noticed that
this famous country-western singer obviously never wore underwear!
The suit was cleaned and everything, but it was stained, and
I said, "I'm not going to wear this!" The wardrobe
man had a fit and said there was no time to go back to get another.
Well, I couldn't walk off the set, so we reached a compromise.
The wardrobe man sewed a heavy pair of underwear into the outfit.
With my own underwear and that sewn in pair, I figured I could
manage. But I'll tell you something, whenever you see me as Mr.
Pebble, you can be sure I was most uncomfortable!
But he also liked to write of his more
recent work. Some of you may recall an episode of Little House
called "The Preacher Takes a Wife." It first aired
October 22, 1979. In this episode Rev. Alden marries Anna Craig,
one of his parishioners. The part of Anna Craig was played by
Iris Korn. In 1982 I asked Dabbs why Rev. Alden's wife is never
mentioned after that single episode.
No mention has ever been made
of Rev. Alden's wife. There is a chance in an upcoming episode
called "Alden's Dilemma" to resolve the situation,
but when I asked the producer if I could add the line, "Oh,
I wish Anna had been able to live to see this," I got a
cold reaction from him... saying, "People don't remember
what you'd be talking about." This is not my problem so
I will not say the line and will shut up about it. In real life,
Iris Korn died this past January 27. She called me the end of
December saying that she was moving back to the Midwest, she
was missing seeing her grandchildren grow up and she had told
her agent that she could be on a plane in four or five hours
if something worthwhile came up. She was not home a month when
she died from leukemia.
Quite often we shared experiences from our years in education.
I taught in Pennsylvania public schools for 27 years, and Dabbs
started his teaching career as a teacher of World History in
Missouri:
Jim, my teaching experience started
when I replaced a woman who headed the drama and speech department
and who had a field of specialization in world history. By staying
twenty pages ahead of the students, I finished out the year.
Then beginning with the new year I was transferred to eleventh
year English along with the speech and drama program for the
entire school system (plus a community theater program I organized).
I worked 18 hours a day six days a week and then spent Sunday
catching up on the paper work that goes along with teaching.
I was there two and a half years... long enough to validate my
teaching credential to a lifetime certificate. My first year
salary was $90 a month. I left not because of my dissatisfaction
with the work or the money, but because I realized my personality
could not stand the business of training students up to the level
that they were just ready to start doing some really creative
and artistic work and having them graduated away from me and
I had to start again from scratch. I knew I couldn't live with
my life that way so I accepted a position with the Pasadena Playhouse
and School of the Theatre, thinking that it would be different
in a professional school. My beginning salary there was $75 a
month! After seven years my salary was up to $365 a month, but
I quit because the same problem existed there (the exigency of
age made them move out) plus the fact that I was being moved
more and more into the administrative end of the school, and
if I was going to do that kind of work, I wanted to be paid for
it since it was the labor of my heart to teach, act, and direct...
not administrate. By that time I had done enough movie jobs that
I was able to sustain myself in that field. I left the Playhouse
and have been plugging away at the acting business every since.
Concerning religion, Dabbs wrote:
I cannot tell you of my personal view
of religion without taking you through all the changing experiences
of my life. I can only say I do attend church almost every week
because I may go months without ever experiencing something of
value for the growth and enrichment of my life but never knowing
where or how that statement will be made to me, I find that the
little investment in time of an hour a week is a small fee to
pay. Doctrine or sect is unimportant to me, but on the other
hand I do not feel that I can mold a God to fit my desires and
needs.
No matter what the topic, Dabbs found amusement. In 1988 I
sent him a copy of "Stand By All Stations," an episode
of Waterfront (1954) starring Preston Foster.
You have always been nudging me for
remembrances of things past. What a delightful evening you gave
me with those early days tapes. I intended to watch one of them
before going to bed on the day they arrived and ended up still
wide awake at 3:00 AM watching The
Lone Ranger! In watching Waterfront I remembered becoming
very seasick while I waited in the engine room for them to need
me... and spraying the whole place with reconstituted coffee
and fruit juice. I've never been very comfortable with sailing,
and even though we were within the breakwater I was overcome
with the fumes from the engines and the motion of the boat. I
wasn't able to be out in the fresh air because I would have been
seen were I on deck, and the script didn't have me there. I always
carry Dramamine in my kit, but I hate to use it because it makes
me so drowsy, and dozing off between cues is frowned upon.
And Jim, I got hysterical about my
constantly putting on and taking off my hat! I would have said
men did away with hats by the time of World War II, but evidently
we wore them later than I remembered... and I wasn't about to
go anyplace without that hat in "Stand By All Stations."
I also remember that at the end of the episode the boat has been
repaired and the director wanted a thrillingly emotional shot
of the Cheryl Ann [Preston Foster's boat] sliding off into the
water. But along with him that day, I too learned that boats
moving off dry dock creep along as imperceptibly as grass growing.
I had completely forgotten Law of the Plainsman until I saw that shot
again in which I was thrown against a string of steel traps and
gourds on the wall so hard that in some freak way I broke two
ribs and spent the rest of the episode trying to keep from breathing
too deeply because of the pain. I dared not even laugh!
And thanks too for the short interview
you did on local television regarding Superman's 50th anniversary.
You are a good-looking fellow and should probably be acting in
pictures rather than being their historian. I can understand
your poise because teaching develops that if nothing else, but
you radiated a quality that one doesn't usually see in persons
being interviewed. [I included
that last paragraph simply because vanity got the better of me
this evening. Forgive me, but it's not often that one gets complimented
by the likes of Dabbs Greer.]
As many of you reading this know, I
have an interest in the old Universal horrors, and in 1988 I
wrote an article called for a now-defunct video magazine whose
name I can no longer recall. After Dabbs read it, he replied:
My own first scare was Dracula
and I sat though it twice because I was afraid to leave the theater.
After the second show when the theater closed I ran all the way
home at a speed which must have rivaled the four minute mile!
Every spring, Dabbs returned to his
hometown of Anderson to make repairs to the family homestead
and meet with old friends. In June, 1991 he wrote:
Forget to tell you a side bar
from my trip to Missouri. A woman from an area paper wanted to
do an interview and couldn't be talked out of it. In the article
she printed the fact that I am 74 years old and that I had never
married. Across the street from my home a new neighbor runs a
babysitting facility. After the article came out, the woman come
over with four or five of her charges of the day... one of them
a 13-year-old girl. The woman said that she read the article
to them and the little girl couldn't believe that I was 74. I
said, "Honey, that is right, and some days I feel every
day of those years." She looked me straight in the eye and
say, "Well, I never knew a 74-year-old virgin before."
Jim, if there ever was any doubt that my hometown was in the
Bible belt, this cinched it! I didn't figure it was my place
to explain life to the child, so all I could say was, "Oh,
that's nice."
I last spoke with Dabbs just a few weeks ago. At the time
he was in dialysis and was facing surgery to repair a heart valve.
But the surgery was just too much for a man of ninety, and now no more letters will arrive in my mailbox...
the calls from Pasadena have ended... and it's time to say "good-bye"
to a wonderful friend. I love you man, and will surely miss you.

Dabbs and me (July, 2001)
Jim Nolt -- May 6, 2007 |